124 O2 Negative Emotion – Overwhelmed

Overwhelmed

Definition

Buried or drowning beneath a huge mass of obligations or tasks.

Practical Tips

  1. Take a break, even if only for a few minutes and come back refreshed.
  2. Chunk down and address each task individually.
  3. Focus on the job in hand in the moment until completion, rather than flitting and leaving a trail of unfinished tasks.
  4. Delegate if possible.
  5. Decide to ‘date’ anything that can be put in the diary.
  6. ‘Dump’ anything that isn’t of importance.
  7. Step back and enjoy your situation!

Beliefs and Affirmations

Recognising the state of being Overwhelmed, allows me to choose what I need to drop or delegate.

Rules

(How to make it very HARD to feel the negative emotion)

The only time I will allow myself to feel…..Overwhelmed, is when I don’t think of one thing at a time.
The only time that I will allow myself to feel…..Overwhelmed by my workload is when I do not list, prioritise and establish a reasonable amount of time to complete the activities.
The only time I will feel…..Overwhelm in my life is when I can’t think of a positive way to progress.
The only time I will allow myself to feel…..Overwhelmed, is when I haven’t asked for help or support.

Example Challenges

DC067 Not having enough hours in the day. Running out of hours but still having a long list of jobs to do!
DC084 My diary is so full of appointments there is no time for me!!!
DC094 I’m having Visitors today and woke up this morning feeling anxious that the house isn’t perfect and immaculate.
DC117 It’s Monday morning, I’ve just come into work and the Workshop is an absolute mess!!! I don’t even know where to start!!

DC139 I’ve got to find a huge amount of money for the rent in 4 weeks time and it’s frightening!

Quotes

“The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself.”
– Friedrich Nietzsche

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