124 L14 Negative Emotion – Letting myself down

Letting Myself Down

Definition

Failing to meet your own expectations of yourself; feeling disappointed in oneself.

Practical Tips

  1. Feeling you are letting yourself down is a sign that you KNOW what needs to be done (and that is perhaps something different from what you have been doing).
  2. Be true to your own Values and follow through with the action needed to fulfil them.
  3. Learn from your perceived mistakes.
  4. Resolve to be the best you can be.
  5. Accept your capabilities and don’t beat yourself up for not achieving the unachievable!

Beliefs and Affirmations

Whatever I do, where ever I go, I know I am on my life’s learning journey and therefore can hold my head up, even when things don’t go to plan.

Rules

(How to make it very HARD to feel the negative emotion)

The only time I will allow myself to feel I am….Letting Myself Down, is when I need a wake up call, to do something different.

Example Challenges

DC121 I’ve not been to the gym and then I feel bad because I didn’t go!

DC122 I’m feeling guilty because I’ve had cake/chocolate and then feel I’ve cheated on my diet.

Quotes

“The only person who can pull me down is myself, and I’m not going to let myself pull me down anymore.”
― C. JoyBell C.

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