124 F19 Negative Emotion – Fear of Rejection

Fear of Rejection

Definition

A fear of a refusal to accept, approve, or support something from someone else; an irrational and abnormal anxiety about the possibility of being made to feel rejected.

Practical Tips

  1. Appreciate there is nothing to fear but fear itself, focussing on the possible rejection will attract that very thing into your life.
  2. Set the intention of what you want to happen and want to feel.
  3. Don’t assume or try to mind read what others are thinking, sometimes we can be SO wrong and our imaginings create the fear in the mind.
  4. Seek professional help (coaching) to eradicate the problem , it’s well worth the investment in yourself.

Beliefs and Affirmations

I am able to overcome my fear of rejection by knowing that every step I take, is moving me towards my goals.

Rules

(How to make it very HARD to feel the negative emotion)

The only time I will allow myself to feel the …………..Fear of Rejection, is when I have forgotten that it’s all about them, not me.

Example Challenges

DC126 Don’t want to call…..they might say No!

DC152 I’m afraid of making suggestions to my wife, in case she says ‘No’. I always feel rejected when she does that.

Quotes

“A rejection is nothing more than a necessary step in the pursuit of success.”
– Bo Bennett

“Rejection doesn’t mean you aren’t good enough; it means the other person failed to noticed what you have to offer.” – Mark Amend

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