124 D4 Negative Emotion – Disappointed

Disappointed

Definition

Unhappy because something that you hoped for or expected did not happen or because someone or something was not as good as you expected.

Practical Tips

  1. Choose to move forward after a disappointment, not backwards.
  2. Access with a clear mind what the next step will be.
  3. If something hasn’t worked, it means there is something better round the corner….try again!

Beliefs and Affirmations

If I am disappointed, I will re-evaluate my expectations. I am not held back by disappointment.

Disappointment has no power over me and does not hold me back.

Rules

The only time I will allow myself to feel…………..Disappointed, is when my expectations are too high.
The only time I will allow myself to feel………….. Disappointed , is when I haven’t tried my best.
The only time I will allow myself to feel…………..Disappointed, is when I don’t see the good side in what is happening.
The only time I will allow myself to feel…………..Disappointment, is when I have too high expectations.

Example Challenges

Just got a text from boyfriend of 3 months,  cancelling date, twice on the trot. Don’t know how to react.  (DC004)

Woke up to the rain hammering down outside, and immediately feel rubbish. (DC006)

My daughter wants to get married on Cup Final day! Football is important to me!   (DC010)

I’ve given a friend a second chance over their bad behaviour and they just repeat it and I feel like a mug. (DC036)

It’s the end of another year and I don’t feel I’ve progressed at all!! (DC054)

Text speak or dreadful grammar on Facebook. (DC064)

Why is everyone else doing well in business but not me? (DC080)

I haven’t received a Valentines Card from my Husband/Wife/Partner/Loved One and I feel our relationship is dwindling. (DC095)
 

DC115 What is stressing me is that I have no control over my finances and can’t plan any holidays.

DC121 I’ve not been to the gym and then I feel bad because I didn’t go!

Quotes

If you align expectations with reality, you will never be disappointed.
-Terrell Owens

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