121a Daily Challenge DC144

Daily Challenge……Family / Financial

‘My daughter has ‘Power of Attorney’ with my money and I feel like I’ve lost control!’
I am feeling…..Agitated / Financially Frustrated / Out of Control

Step 1. (How I would like to feel…)
At Ease / Empowered / Financially In Control

Step 2. (Quality Questions for self…)
Can I get Control Back?
Am I prepared to accept this situation?
Do I need to improve my relationship with my Daughter?

Step 3. (Practical steps leading to Positive Results…)

Voice your concerns to your Daughter describing how you feel.
Address the issues that let to the POA, as you may feel your circumstances have changed.
If appropriate, work out a strategy with her whereby you have more control than you do at the moment.
If stuck with the POA, decide to accept this new era of your life and work WITH her to make the best of the situation.
Use ‘Shelley’s Script’ to assist you in how to voice this to your Daughter.