‘My neighbours cows are poking their heads through my fence and it’s stressing me out!’
I am feeling…..Annoyed / Emasculated / Inferior
Step 1. (How I would like to feel…)
Empowered / Standing up for self / Negotiator / Assertive of Needs
Step 2. (Quality Questions for self…)
How can I address this and keep a good relationship with the neighbours?
Step 3. (Practical steps leading to Positive Results…)
Articulate the problem without judgement.
Cordially communicate the issue to the neighbour.
Be open-minded on your expectations.
Don’t take the issue personally