‘I haven’t received a Valentines Card from my Husband/Wife/Partner/Loved One and I feel our relationship is dwindling.’
I am feeling…..Disappointed / Distant / Worried
Step 1. (How I would like to feel…)
Cherished / Connected / Valued
Step 2. (Quality Questions for self…)
Is this a sign that we need to address something that is missing from our Relationship?
Am I looking too deeply at what is basically a commercially pushed tradition?
Step 3. (Practical steps leading to Positive Results…)
Remember appreciating feeling loved and secure in your relationship is more important than receiving a card.
If the validation of receiving a card is important to you, find a way of communicating this to your partner.
Step up the romance, perhaps creating date nights, candlelit dinners.
Create time and space to spend together.