Listen To Sue On Friendships that Don’t Fulfil You…..
‘Being upset because friends stay out of touch as they are getting on with their lives.’
I am feeling…..Isolated / Left Out / Rejected
Step 1.(How I would like to feel………..)
Connected / Loved / Needed
Step 2.(Quality Questions for self…)
Are my expectations of the level of communication a fantasy?
How can I keep in touch to a level that keeps us both happy?
Is it time to let these friends go and accept they have moved on?
Step 3.(Practical steps leading to Positive Results…)
When you feel the void from certain friends, fill the void with other friends,(you never loose anything, it just gets transformed).
Decide to accept they are doing other stuff
Fill your life with your new stuff, keep busy and inspired yourself.
Keep in touch from a distance.