Listen To Sue On A Neighbour Dispute
‘Row With the Neighbour’
I am feeling…..Aggrieved / Bitter / Victimised
Step 1.(How I would like to feel………..)
Amicable / Calm / Heard
Step 2.(Quality Questions for self…)
Is the row worth the aggro?
How can we resolve this matter?
Step 3.(Practical steps leading to Positive Results…)
Calm down after the event before launching in.
Sleep on it, letting the neighbours calm down too.
See the argument from the neighbours point of view
Cordially suggest you both discuss the situation in a civilised fashion Remember, you have to live next to these people!!